Romancing the Butterfly Effect

Nine: Nine Time Travels

A butterfly flaps its wings over a flower. Air currents are set in motion. Halfway around the world, a few weeks later, a hurricane takes shape and sweeps across the seas.

A nail goes missing. The shoe it is on, the soldier wearing the shoe and the battle formation hinging on the soldier fall out of place. A kingdom is lost.

In the world of dramas and in real life, the element of serendipity can play a tremendous role in shaping people’s romantic destinies. A girl chances upon her future sweetheart among courtyard plum blossoms in a period drama. A random painting reunites a pair of lovers in a soap opera. Amnesia forces another pair apart in a second soap opera just to bring a third pair together. You were in a beginner language class when your instructor called in sick one day; the school decided to offer you a place in an intermediate class instead, which you surprisingly excelled at and stayed on to develop a bond with a new classmate, who became your wife. It was lunch hour, but the stack of papers on your in-tray was almost up to your neck, so you decided to grab a quick takeaway sandwich on the other side of the street instead of the usual noodle salad down your block; an old acquaintance you had not seen for years made the opposite choice; you ran into each other, sparks flew, and a year later, the two of you are now walking down the aisle together.

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Who am “I”?

Nine: Nine Time Travels

If your younger self were to bump into you through a time warp one day, how would he react to your current state? Would he be disappointed at your failure to adhere to nobler principles or attain a life as bright as he (and you) once envisioned? Or would he marvel with youthful romanticism at a risky route you are taking but viewing with jadedness and self-disapproval? If you have instead spent all your life ticking off the checklist of achievements prescribed for you by society, would he be mightily proud of you or sneer at the gutlessness preventing you from moving out of the comfort zone?

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